F.A.Q.


How can I be more intuitive?

BE MORE OPEN. At every level, this answer remains the same for us all.

The most obvious answer I can give you, is make space for guidance. It means you have to start honoring the little ways they communicate with you. When some "miracle" happens that is a delightful surprise to your day, THANK THEM for contributing. YES, I know you feel like you are talking to yourself, but do it any way. They are here all of the time; it is ONLY your awareness that changes whether or not you know about them. THE MORE you get comfortable with talking to the "invisible" the more they will reveal themselves in the way you are designed to sense their presence.

The most common intuition we all receive (and the most common one we ignore, even when you have a strong relationship with guidance) is to LOVE YOURSELF NOW which can also be said as CELEBRATE WITH JOY NOW. That means that there is no worth earning. There is no suffering to be more deserving. There is no moment that you have to 'work' to get to. There is no separation, so all of these fear beliefs are untrue blocks we THINK that when we do/be them, that we will be granted love of ourselves. But it is exactly the opposite. They remain the BLOCK we hold onto that keeps love from being a possibility of Existing.

Once you start seeing your own insistence of these fear beliefs, you will then be able to see WHY you are so threatened of loving yourself and delaying enjoying your own existence.

LASTLY keep in mind, loving yourself is the first step to being able to reflect all of the love of the infinite/god/the universe THROUGH YOU!

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How do I forgive and open my heart again?

Oprah once said that forgiveness is giving up the hopes that the past can be any different.

So what we are dealing with is accepting the past. That doesn't mean endorsing it, defending it, or even understanding it. IT MEANS ACCEPTING...JUST THE FACTS, MA'AM.

The compulsive acts of the present are rooted in re-enacting moments we can't 'be' with. To 'be' with something does NOT require re-enacting. Recurring moments ONLY happen to release that memory, NOT because it is required for the healing. YOU DO NOT HAVE TO FEEL SOMETHING EXIST TO ACCEPT IT HAPPENED. In fact, in many ways to replay it in your mind, is to re-injure yourself because where you put your focus, puts your experience. SO, by giving it a re-play is to make it real Again.

NO, what I am suggesting is, look at the facts of it HAVING HAPPENED from as much distance as you can harness. Put yourself in a different time and space then the original events. Envision yourself in the arms of where you feel the most love, and then write down the facts like a police report TO DOCUMENT IT HAPPENED.

The moment your unconscious begins OWNING that the event actually happened, it will stop attracting others into your life to push the buttons of it. The button pushing is NOT the world uniting to hurt you again, but uniting to support you in healing it and releasing it.

Also, the destruction you have done that you can't make peace with, is actually creating a fertile breeding ground for you to do it again. Energetically what you hate or deny about yourself is almost guaranteed to happen again because it is creating a force that your unconscious will act out, and you will then have more evidence to define yourself as destroyer yet again.

We are all creators. These creations can either support or destroy. It is absolutely inherent that every one of us destroys, because we are unconscious of our power of creation at all times, so we do it obliviously. But we have enough awareness in hind sight to realize I DID THAT DESTRUCTION. So if you are going to take that first step, you must tag onto the end - BECAUSE I AM A CREATOR.

It is difficult for most of us to see our creation powers in what we love about ourselves, so do it with the destruction and allow that to be your first baby steps towards seeing your powers.

To read more about how everything is perfect, even if it is or has been a painful agony. It will give you insight into your own creation and expand your ability to see yourself as god creator You Can't Go Wrong

Opening your heart happens as all of you begins to trust that YOU will be there for yourself. It is a process of experiencing that YOU create a space that it is safe to be open. Anger and shut down are the defenses that protect the heart and will remain as fierce in their commitment to keep you safe, until you create a space in which IT IS safe to take down those armors.

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Suggestions about guidance

GET DEMANDING!

YES, get demanding. Tell them when you want them to show up and what kind of support you want. For instance- "Guidance, I am going on an interview tomorrow. I need you to surround me prior and keep me focused. I need you to make my mind sharp during the interview and my heart calm. I need you to be extremely subtle in your suggestions because I can't take any more pressure in what is optimal for my life. Lastly, after the interview I need you to keep me from self loathing, no matter what has happened."

Guides spend their existence WORKING TO SUPPORT YOU. The more you ask for, the more they deliver what you want - which makes YOU willing to be closer to them. They do not want you to give them existence, because they serve you either way. What they do want, is you to USE THEM. So the more demanding you get, the more they CAN be used because their contributions will become more obvious to you so you will use them more and more.

Create a relationship with them that makes YOU feel safe. Meaning, they are advisors. YOU get final word. So even if they suggest you not go down a certain road, it doesn't mean you have to do it. You will undoubtedly realize why they suggested it, but it is YOURS to decide.

Talk to them as you talk to your best friend, and they will really meet you at YOUR personality's style. I have a variation of them; outlandishly funny, unbelievably understanding while being truthful without making me feel defensive in the confrontation of their truth, solid in their directness, super nurturing, etc.

LASTLY, really remember YOU get to tell them no. MAKE BOUNDARIES...CREATE A RELATIONSHIP THAT FITS YOU - WITH THEM!!! I say this because sometimes they will give you a suggestion that is too far out of your comfort zone, so you will need help with a much less ambitious goal than they have for you, and they can meet you where you are willing. But it really is for YOU TO LEARN how to create what works for you, because otherwise they will either annoy or scare you. NAMELY you must consider, not all guides understand "fear" so their support may not take into account YOUR FREAKING OUT REACTION to their suggestions of a fearless choice, because they see what WORKS, not what your reaction to taking that step into the unknown will have you feel inside.

I have been told that, their understanding of our fear, is based on if they have been humans before. If not, our getting wiggy about something (instead of just doing it) makes no sense to them. Never thought YOU were going to have to be compassionate and understanding with your guides - did ya? ;)

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Healers - how does it work?

Understanding this basic principle of energy is crucial.

We are all continually intermingling our energy with others. Based on our free will, we determine who will influence us and to what extent. Because we are so deeply unconscious of our total state of connection to all things/people/EveryThing - we do not realize that we are always using our magnetic energy to attract all of what we are engaging with. It is why certain people will exchange colds/flus on a bus ride with fellow strangers, and others will not "catch" it. Our encodings attract what creates our own unique universe. Our encodings are determined from the beliefs we hold from our experiences, and our DNA. They work in a state of harmony to magnetically attract events to materialize into matter and experiences. We chose our ancestors/genes/DNA to create the "best self" to become this unique "I" that we each are, to fulfill our soul's purpose. So our cells, encoded with historical dna and beliefs are the "automatic unconscious" life plan we will lead... IF WE DO NOT CHANGE OUR FREE WILL. It is the unconscious path we will follow if there is no shift. FREE WILL is the key part because working with me is about Consciously choosing to change the encodes of your energy programming. Whether the root is genetic or it is belief based, is irrelevant. A cell that is programmed to degenerate into death does not distinguish on whether or not what is influencing it is from your ancestral (dna) or from experiences (beliefs encoded). So consider your body and the world to have the pre-written program of genes that you chose to fulfill your soul's purpose and so it is on an "automatic attraction" function. Working with a healing modality, is about shifting what is automatic into a state of choice; to See your connection and your creations from a clear state, so that your journey is designed by you in each moment more KNOWINGLY.

The bottom line is every single cell, and every single unconscious action/impulse, and every single feeling that is influencing your experiences to be towards a degenerating emotional or physical state has only ONE ROOT CAUSE and that is it is programmed to exist as if it is disconnected from The All.

If you took any cell and reprogrammed it to be in a state of connection to The ALL (god, universe, or what ever You call the place of energy that we all connect at) is the moment that energy WOULD FEED OFF of the limitless energy of The All and would immediately revitalize, where upon your heart, mind, body and soul would be in a state of wholeness with The All.

Now don't let your perfectionist mind get all carried away with "wholeness" and never dying. Have enough compassion for yourself to know that The Reason that you do not know any 700 year old people is because it is our purpose as humans to experience THE JOURNEY of understanding spirit energy; not to master it and be The Best for "worth".

Through our process of awakening/understanding to the truth that we are all connected through our spirit energy that we use it to create/attract all events; we more deeply know our true selves because of this continual discovery where we see things we couldn't from the place of total knowingness on the other side. So our experiencing this ongoing "holy COW, I really DID attract that" is a gradual process and is about expanding what we can Own so that when we die we take with us, a rich understanding of the spirit energy that is who we are and what connects us, from having experienced an energy field (Earth- Hertzian energy) in which we forgot this truth.

The easiest analogy, is as adults we have so completely mastered walking that we can't imagine what all it entails -> UNTIL you go ice skating, snowboarding, or roller blading for the first time and are reduced to a state of flailing that reintroduces you to the nuances of movement, balance and tangoing with gravity. That is kind of what Earth Life is like, a way of being re-introduced with the focused creation that on the other side you have mastered to such a state of Beingness that it would be unimaginable to not KNOW you are creating through your focus and connection to The All.

No matter what survival attitudes you have picked up; Life is NOT about being perfect or trying to keep our flesh in a state of vitality forever it is a Much GREATER and more divine ambition. Please do not focus on your body's health, but on your spirit's AWARENESS of connection..and your body and mind will follow.

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Music - what is it really?

At it's most pure expression MUSIC is colors and movement. It is literally an orchestra of rainbows. We humans use the sense of our ears to interpret the vibrations so we feel it through what we call sound. But that is like confusing a smile with love. Love generates a smile. The Smile is the LOVE OUTCOME EXPRESSED. Same with how those moving colors expresses in a noise.

I know this will sound bizarre, but in earth reality there are different frequencies of LOVE. Love is everything: it is anger, destruction, beauty, fear, confusion, adoration, etc.

And with every expression of those, is a frequency. There is none that is worth more or worth less. They all offer different experiences.

The frequency of each expression is like bumper cars. The ride of bumping into, melding with, revolting against. The more fear based, have more crashes and revolts. The more truth, has a clearer trajectory. Neither is right or better.

Truthfully, you can ATTEMPT to listen to music that is more truth based than where you are now. But what is inside of you is hungering for a mirror to get you conscious of what unconscious energy is inside of you now. So often that means you are going to listen to the vibe you are PRESENTLY AT. You will only be able to stomach (yes, I mean that Exact word ) a musical expression of a Truth that is not where you are living if you can truly hold focus to shift there. Otherwise you will find it as unbearable as when someone loves you with an open heart and you go do something destructive and blow it all up with fear. Not because you are wrong, but because you can't be WITH what you aren't inside until you are able to vibe at that new truth.

Makes you realize that you really only have choice within YOUR PRESENT FREQUENCY until you can make conscious THIS FREQUENCY to be able to shift into any other. Which is to say, you really have no choice, you only have expression OF WHAT IS PRESENTLY INSIDE OF YOU.

Regarding Choice...This Topic will be continued...

As for music- just enjoy saturating IN YOUR SELF because that is the vibe you are gonna choose to ring in your earSSSSSSSSSSS.

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Time & Re-Incarnation

To understand what time is, you have to consider the energy field earth is. It is dualistic. This means that here we are able to EXPERIENCE our realities and truths in states that are actually untrue. Our connection to spirit is eternal and yet we can absolutely believe and feel that there is no possible connection TO ANYTHING. This is ONLY possible because of this 'artificial divide' to support it.

The simplest explanation I was given by my guides about time, is to think of TV. On one channel you are watching a show, and though you know that on the other channels there is a show going on full speed ahead, that your focus is only on the show you are actually watching. Well, that is time. All time is happening as simultaneously as those OTHER shows, but the only one you are aware of, is the one you are focusing on (watching).

Re-incarnation is also not a linear progression. This life is not informing merely your future 'lives' but also your past ones. Because they are all happening right now on other tv stations that you are not focused on.

What this really brings it back to is who you are.

As an identity defined as a "person" your field of vision is very narrow, so you are not aware of where your energy is expanded to. Or that there is a SELF that is you, that lives waaaaaaaaaay beyond this earth field energy zone. That SELF sees this person that you think is the entirety of WHO YOU ARE as a little particle of its huge whole. But your perception is that you are the whole. THAT is why you do not see that these other realities and energy fields and selves in other dimensions and times are happening RIGHT NOW.

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Prayer & Affirmations

If done correctly prayers and affirmations are a truly direct way to use your power. If done incorrectly, they actually cancel themselves out.

It's simple. Your first prayer is a seed that you plant. If you let it be, it grows. If you keep re-praying you kill the seed. The second prayer about the SAME INTENT is you planting fear that kills the seed. So, you must hold faith in your heart no matter what worries you have. Send out billions of prayers, just do not re-pray on the same intent.

If every time you planted a seed, you then continually dug it up to see how it was doing, you would kill it. Same exact principle.

Affirmations, are a bit different. You need to see them as mantras to help elevate your focus. Imagine they are songs you are singing to yourself. If you are saying affirmations as a way to FORCE fear beliefs away you will only create havoc because you are essentially coming from fear/fight/destruction of fear. If you use affirmations to fill your heart with joy, than their power is limitless.

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Insights from a spirit guide - Victoria Obvious

I was in an altered state and met Victoria Obvious, a spirit guide. She shared with me what we humans look like from their view, and insights about us. I personally have never found it so easy to be kind, accepting, and full of appreciation OF MYSELF AND THE HUMAN TRIP than from her perspective. You will laugh, you will cry, and you will find it so easy to love yourself through the eyes of The Beyond.www.VictoriaObvious.blogspot.com

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What are the winning lotto numbers for my state this week?

THIS I KNOW... but I have been instructed to tell your pet turtle. Have 'em call me between 3-4a when I am up howling at the moon and licking peanut butter off my own ear lobes.

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